FORGIVENESS
Okay, that may sound a little corny or weird to some, but it is all I really want. You have no idea how many heart aches I have caused by my "Innocent tongue," or heart aches I have suffered for lack of communication because someone won't tell me what it is I have done so that I can fix it. Yes, I know this is a selfish gift. It is my birthday, and I want the world, but am only asking for forgiveness. I know to some I have hurt deeply, this may mean giving me the world, but just think of how much lighter you will feel with the burden gone, and I really am asking with a sincere heart.
Take your time, think about it as long as you need to. Who doesn't like late birthday presents? You think your birthday is over, and WHAM there is something on your doorstep, or WHAM there is something in your mailbox. It makes your day. And this GIFT will make my year!
Some will think this post is specifically for them, and Yes, I do have certain people in mind, but all in all I really wish to know I have a clean slate with everyone. I am going to work really hard to keep it clean. But something I am also trying to give myself this year, is acceptance. I am who I am. I CAN change things, but I need to accept the things that are an intricate part of me that I can't change. AND learn to like them. My "innocent tongue" is one of those things. It needs to be brideled, but not smoothered. It can be used for good. I also have to realize I can not always help offending those who are waiting to be offended. I am TRYING really hard to let others be human, meaning make mistakes, do things the way they do them, and be who they are going to be. I am also trying to let myself be human. I can only change me, I can't change anyone else...but i can ask for a birthday gift of Forgiveness.
So when you are ready, IF you are willing, please leave me a PRESENT in my comment box, or if it is too private, shoot me an e-mail. THANK YOU ahead of time.
15 comments:
Amy, you're too cute. You've never offended me in the least. I love you're "innocent tongue"...it makes us all laugh! :) Don't we all need to say what we think sometimes?! There's nothing wrong with that. :)
Love ya girlie.
Hi Amy,
I doubt your comment was directed to me specifically, but I do want you to know if you ever think you have offended me, you really haven't and even if you did a little, I of course forgive you. I know that we've shared differences of opinion, and by sharing those differences you always run the risk of hurting someone. I hope that you can forgive me too for anything I have done to offend you. ;) I love that you are such an open person and that you speak your mind...so while you may feel the need to control that, I agree with the statement that it makes you who you are. And...we love you for that!
Amy,
I forgive you for ..............not calling me more often to hang out when our hubbys are working=) Love ya and I have never been offended. But I do hope that you get what you want for your birthday. We all deserve to be forgiven or given that chance to turn wrongs right.
Pretty sure this post was not for me at all, you have never hurt me. I love how open you are, I never have to wonder what you're thinking. Your "innocent tongue" is probably my favorite thing about you besides your photography talent;)
Love ya, Hope you have a great Birthday!
So my gift will be watching your kids while you go to lunch:)
Happy Birthday! I haven't been offended. I forgive you anyway because i want to be forgiven when I offend you! We are all doing the best we can and making lots of mistakes! Thanks for being so loving and accepting of us. You bring a lot of love to the Farr family. We love you!
Aren't you so happy? I read your blog!Yeah!
I forgive you for posting that picture of DeeKen on the potty at 18 months – the same picture that continually haunts me each time I berate myself for not being able to potty train my three year old. ; ) Happy Birthday.
I forgive you for not calling me at one o' clock like you said you would.....so call me already or I will have to forgive you again.
Amy,
How I love you! In awe of your spiritual maturity at age 30... As the matriarch of the Farrever clan I want you to know that our family is enriched by your example of openness, honesty, and especially hightened sense of speaking, showing, and fostering family ties and love. We are so thankful that you and John fell in love, that you are part of our life, and that you have given us Noah, Micah, Deeken, and Josie - and ALL of who you are!!!!
P.S.
Can't think of anything to forgive. It's already done. Much love and the best of wishes for the next decade! Enjoy those YOUNG years! Kerry
Happy Birthday Amy. I have a hard time believing that you offend people. If fact I love to read your blog because you are one of the most genuine people I know. I think the fact that you recognize you are human and that you make mistakes is something I really admire about you. Growing up I always really looked up to you and I think even more so now when I see what a wonderful mother, wife and friend you are. Hope you have a great birthday!
Sorry Amy....... you are going to have to choose a different present because what you are asking for does not apply to me. You are family, I have a very thick skin and you have not offended me in any way, shape or form. So think of something else for your b-day. One thing I can give you for your b-day is all my love. You have always been nice to me and I really appreciate that. I hope you have a wonderful day. With all my love, Haydee.
Happy Birthday. You have nothing to be forgiven of. You are one of the kindest people I know and I love you. Hope you are having a great day!!!
Woman - first, I have not known you long enough to have you offend me - I think anyway. Are you that quick to offend! :) he he he
Wait, maybe that onnnne time!
Secondly, I am NOT easily offended!
Hope you had a great birthday today!
Enjoy that PEPSI! HA~
I hope you had a wonderful Birthday and I'm still bummed I couldn't spend it with you...as for forgiveness...only if you do me the favor as well...you are a great woman and I'm blessed to have you in my life. I still wish we were closer so we could run together more often. Love you lots!!
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