If you think my hands are full, you should see my heart.--A
“Nothing is going to startle us more when we pass through the veil to the other side than to realize how well we know our Father and how familiar his face is to us.” President Benson

Sunday

HISTORY/TRAUMA/DRAMA

When I first moved to Oregon, Micah was just a few months old and needed her well baby checks often. I couldn't get into any of the doctors of people I knew, so I started trying out some on my own. Noah came with us to meet the first peditrician I tried. I was new to the whole two kid thing, and wasn't as observant with Noah as I should have been. It didn't help that it took the doctor FOREVER to come in. Noah climbed up on the Doctor's stool while I was nursing Micah. I told him to get down, but he didn't. He continued to stand up on it and of course it rolled out from under him. He didn't bleed, but with Noah it is never about the trauma, always the drama. He started wailing...and then of course the doctor came in. I didn't notice till later that all of his front four teeth were nice and chipped.(Still has them today poor kid, cuz he hasn't lost a tooth yet.) Fast forward four years, I was at home this time, Feeding Josie, and Deeken climbs up onto the edge of the couch and falls onto the tile that surrounds our door. My first thought is that sounded really bad. Next thought Broken arm?(that is exactly how Noah broke his arm) Next thought BREATHE(Deeken hadn't screamed yet, and I was holding my breath nervous to look)! The screaming started, and I walked over slowly to see the damage. I turned him over and there was the blood. His mouth was bleeding profusely. Where is John was my next thought. (John was at work. His 6th 12 hour (at least) shift in a row.) I tried to stay calm, I am not good with blood. I started shouting to Noah to get me a towel, and he does and we get the bleeding stopped. Deeken is not so much about the drama and more about the trauma...his crying didn't last long, but his mother's worry did. I couldn't get John on the phone, so I started calling resident friends. Our wonderful friends the English's were home and we headed over there. He looked up stuff on-line before we got there, and was prepared for Deeken's trauma and his mother's drama. To make this story shorter, I will now try to stick to trauma and not the drama. Deeken's Front left tooth is moved forward a bit, and a little closer to his right front one. There is some brusing on his gums underneath his nose. He has a lot of lacerations on his bottom lip. AND some nice chips out of his front tooth. We tried to get ahold of our dentist, even trying the emergency line, but recieved no response. So I then went to the next best thing(Probably better) our friend who recently finished Dental school, Jared Ward. He calmed my fears and told me that Deeken would probably be okay not seeing a Dentist till Monday. He did tell me no hard things in his mouth until we had seen a Dentist, thus No Binki or Sippy Cup. OUCH! I will keep you updated on what happens.

Thank you to the English's and Ward's who helped us through my child's trauma and my drama. We appreciate you and miss you(Ward's)!

Some random pics!
We'll, at least Deeken didn't end up looking like this!

8 comments:

TyandMar said...

So scary Amy. Situations like that are inevitable, and I don't look forward to them. I'm glad everyone is ok.

Anonymous said...

I'm glad you didn't panic as bad as I did when my daughter broke her head and I called 911 instead of just checking her head. It was a very small cut but I didn't know that the head bleeds like crazy!!!! I honestly thought that she had cracked her head open. So you are very brave to try to stop the bleeding. Your kids are very adorable. Love, Haydee.

Sonja said...

Ouch!!! I'm glad that he is alright. Those big falls are so scary!

KevDebKlan said...

A few battle scars only makes them look more manly. Glad he is ok. sure wish we were going to see you this thanksgiving or anytime soon for that matter. Miss you. our family picture was just a snap shot that a lady took of us when we were getting our pumpkins. We are going to have a real one taken soon. I will send you one of those.

Veekfam said...

I wish I could've been there to help Aim! I might've not had the best medical advice, but I sure miss being around the corner. I really hope you get to Utah over Christmas so there might be a chance to see ya. I love ya!

Gary and Shelice Murphy said...

I don't know if you've found this but I am so different with my boys than I was with Mychel-Anne....much more wait and see if they're really hurt...no blood etc...ahh you'll be fine. Then when they really do get hurt I feel terrible for being so nonchalant. I can do blood, but I don't like it and avoid it as much as possible. I can't even watch when they draw blood. You are amazing...it's so scary...boys :D

KT said...

That is crazy Amy! I remember Noah w/his broken arm:( Well, update your blog already with the outcome, hopefully no broken bones this time..

Jared and Steph said...

I'm still jealous that Jared got to talk to you for so long and I just had to hand the phone over! And of course, I hope Deek is doing better. Love ya